I’m glad my son had the opportunity to attend these classes. He is very sensitive and often had strong reactions to different circumstances and other people’s behavior. His emotions were very much on the surface and the most common reaction was tears.
Once he started the course, the change in how he reacts to situations that used to cause him frustration became very obvious very quickly. Now he’s dealing with his emotions differently and with much more ease.
My son really enjoyed exploring each coaching tool with a scientist’s curiosity. He was testing how applying the tools he was learning were affecting his emotional state, and I was noticing the difference in his reactions. He became calmer.
The tool where the situation is being evaluated from different perspectives, with neutrality and more distance I find very helpful. Also, learning to notice the positive aspects in seemingly negative or hopeless situations.
I’m happy to know that from such an early age my son has learned how to recognize his emotions and now has many tools to deal with them. I’m certain that over time, using those tools will become a natural skill for him just like riding a bike or swimming.
I look at my child and admire how much stronger he became and how much he’s grown during this course. And how now he’s able to make decisions from a neutral stance, with a different perspective instead of making it in the midst of emotional volcano.
Before he started the course my only fear was for it not to be just a theoretical learning, which would cause boredom and rejection for him. Luckily, the classes were very practical with easily applicable tools. I also really liked the examples and analogies that Evelina used to illustrate different emotions and various coaching techniques.
Those classes were very valuable for me because I was suffering seeing how much pain my son was experiencing reacting to certain situations, feeling unable to help him because I didn’t know how to explain it and teach him how to deal with emotions and process them. Because I wasn’t taught that either.
I’m very grateful to Evelina for offering these classes. I think they should be a part of the curriculum in every school, just like math or arts are.
R.